Not sure what your partner needs from you?

GrowClose gives you a few questions and one small exercise each day, so you always know what to try next.

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Sound familiar?

Caring was never the problem. Knowing what to do next is the hard part, and most of us are never shown how.

Small steps, every day, in the same direction.

GrowClose turns good intentions into something you can actually do tonight, and learns what works for the two of you along the way.

A few minutes a day is enough.

One small exercise

A short, specific idea that suits your relationship right now. Not a generic list, never a lecture, and never a big project.

"Ask one question tonight you've never asked before."

A few honest questions

Choose between one and ten a day, about two minutes. They help GrowClose understand you both, and your answers stay private.

A quick check-in

Tell us how it went. Tomorrow's idea fits a little better because of it.

A coach when it's hard

Talk something through, ask for a different idea, or just vent. If something more serious comes up, real help is one tap away.

Start alone.

You don't need to convince anyone first. Answer a few questions about your relationship and your first idea is ready today.

Invite your partner whenever it feels right. Once they join, ideas can draw on both of you, but nothing depends on them saying yes.

Grow together.

What you share is up to you.

Working on your relationship means saying honest things. So your words stay yours, even once your partner joins.

Never shared with your partner

  • Your answers to daily questions
  • Your conversations with the coach
  • Your check-ins, notes and reflections
  • Your goals and wishes, in your own words

Shared only if you switch it on

  • Your connection style results
  • How many days you've connected
  • Appreciation notes you choose to send

Everything is off until you turn it on, and either of you can unlink at any time.

Controls that keep you comfortable

  • Discreet notifications. Reminders never show what an idea or question says unless you ask them to.
  • Leave quickly. One tap closes GrowClose and opens a neutral page.
  • App lock. Lock the app behind your face, fingerprint or a PIN.
  • Your data, your call. Download everything, or delete your account from settings at any time.
  • Private AI. The coach runs on our own servers, so what you write isn't sent to an outside AI company.

Start free. Upgrade when it's working.

We believe couples need support without the big price tag. That's why GrowClose Free is designed to help from day one.

Only one of you needs Premium. Once you're linked, one subscription covers you both.

Free

Everything you need to get started.

  • Daily questions, one to ten a day
  • A daily idea for your first two weeks, then three a week
  • Evening check-ins that tailor what comes next
  • 10 coach messages a day
  • Invite your partner
  • Progress for the past month
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One plan covers you both

Premium

For couples who want to keep the momentum going.

  • A fresh idea every single day
  • Up to three swaps a day when an idea doesn't fit
  • Talk to the coach whenever you need it, within fair use
  • Full partner linking, with ideas that draw on both of you
  • Send ideas to your partner in the app
  • Your full history and insights
Try Premium

Monthly or yearly. Cancel any time.

Get help, safety support and finding a counsellor are always free, for everyone, with no account needed.

Safety comes first

Help, safety information and counsellor search are always free and never need an account. If you're worried about your relationship or your safety, visit our Get help page.

Get the app

GrowClose works best on your phone, where your daily idea, reminders and check-ins are a tap away. Free on iPhone and Android.

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Start drawing closer tonight.

It takes a couple of minutes to set up, and your first idea is waiting at the end.

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